They believed you’d never leave, no matter how much trouble they caused. While you worked hard to make things better, they just watched and enjoyed being in control.How Narcissists Leave You to Clean Up Their Drama © Article cover created by the author using Canva.When you look back, you can see now the relationship was never going to last. Narcissistic relationships always […]

Enablers are very important in narcissist life. But who they are? They are people narcissist choose to stay close with them. Enablers are people who stay close to narcissist, like loyal followers. They maybe think narcissist is real victim or just don’t want any fight. These people keep forgiving narcissist for bad things they do. Sometimes, they even help them.  They […]

They believed you wouldn’t see through their tricks and lies. I’ve discussed some of these topics before, but now I’d like to share new insights that reveal the truths they tried to keep hidden from you. At first, the narcissist was surprised that you might find out who they really are. They never thought you would see behind their fake […]

Today, we’ll talk about how a narcissist plans to discard someone. But first, what does “discard” mean? It’s when someone throws away something they don’t value or respect anymore, like a paper cup or an old t-shirt. The narcissist keeps ending relationships in a never-ending cycle. First, they start by showering you with love and making everything seem perfect. But soon, they […]

Control is very important to them. When you were in the relationship, you didn’t know this because you thought it was a kind, loving, and stable relationship. When you met the narcissist, they took control right away. They decided who you hung out with, what you did, and even what clothes you wore. They ran everything in the relationship. And […]

We’re focusing on narcissists and why it’s crucial to avoid them. Narcissists are people who don’t genuinely care about you. They’ve never had your best interests at heart, not in the past, not now, and definitely not in the future. As you try to leave a relationship with a narcissist or plan how to get out, you realize just how common narcissism […]

It’s tough to accept, but it’s true. The narcissist fills your thoughts during the relationship and sometimes even after it’s over, until one day, they just don’t anymore. The goal of this article is to reach a point where you don’t care about the narcissist anymore. But let’s go back for a moment. Remember when you first met them? They probably […]

You might have heard me use chess, ocean, and “light at the end of the tunnel” examples before. These comparisons apply when you’re healing from a narcissistic relationship. In this article, I want to explain something for those who aren’t familiar with chess: Chess is played on a board, and when one of your pawns reaches the opponent’s backline, you can […]

Denial is when someone refuses to accept the truth, and narcissists are experts at it. Right from when they first met you, they started hiding who they truly are. They pretended to be someone else, tricking you into getting close to them. They’re sneaky, making you open up to them while they keep their true selves hidden. Every time you talked […]

It could be someone you used to date, a family member, a coworker, or just a friend. Sometimes, you might feel tempted to give them another chance. Dealing with a narcissist is extremly difficult. They flip between acting like a victim and acting superior, always trying to get their way. For example, think about a parent with a narcissistic adult child. […]

They don’t want to help you, instead they want to trap you in their cycle of manipulation and harm. Like a sinking ship, they have a bunch of ways to cause trouble and hurt anyone close to them. If you’ve ever been with a narcissist, you know how strange it feels. It’s like being in a crazy world where you forget who […]

Today’s topic is about When You See the Narcissist for Who They Really Are. Knowing the real person behind the mask, instead of who you hoped they were, is a key part of healing. During the relationship, you probably gave the narcissist many chances. You didn’t trust your gut feelings, ignored the red flags, and saw a twisted version of reality. […]