Their past actions come back to haunt them sooner or later, it’s bound to happen. The narcissist moves through life like a wrecking ball in a serene garden. Their goal is to cause harm like manipulating, deceiving, creating chaos, and ruining lives without feeling sorry. Some may argue, “Ryan, you’re being harsh.” No, I’m not. If you’ve crossed paths a narcissist […]

You feel emotionally low and can’t see through the manipulation and mistreatment. It’s a confusing and disorienting experience where you might not even understand what’s happening. When You’re Lost in a Narcissistic Fog ©Article cover made by the author. You know you’re not being treated well. The abuse or manipulation happens more often now, almost every day. You’re getting used to […]

To start, the first thing narcissists crave is confusion. They thrive when people around them are uncertain and unsure. Narcissists avoid stable, healthy relationships and prefer keeping others isolated and separated from each other. Here are The Essential Needs of Narcissists ©Article cover made by the author. They form small groups and deliberately isolate individuals. They use tactics such as gaslighting, silent […]

While you were in it, there were many moments when you worked hard to make it better. They will say like “Hey, can we talk about our relationship? It seems like things have changed, and we need to discuss what’s next.” When You Tried to Save the Relationship ©Article cover made by the author. Back then, you didn’t realize what kind of […]

Today might be a very shocking day for me, after dedicating so much time to writing every day on Medium and this is what happened. ©Screenshot by the author. Today, July 8th, 2024, I saw a surprising this red banner while awaiting my June 2024 payment from Medium, which was marked as pending. I had recently emailed them regarding this. However, […]

There is a very long list of things that the narcissist destroys. I’ll jump right into it. A Long List That Narcissists Destroy in You ©Article cover made by the author. The first thing the narcissist destroyed was your trust. You used to trust them, just like you trust most people, until you met that narcissistic person who betrayed you. They promised […]

When you were in that relationship with the narcissist, you didn’t know what they wanted or about narcissism beforehand. So, you didn’t understand what you were dealing with, whether it was a narcissistic family, spouse, coworker, colleague, neighbor, friend, or anyone who might have been a narcissist. What Did the Narcissist Really Want from You? ©Article cover made by the author. […]

For example, if you experience a home fire that destroys everything you own, you can’t forget it, and now you know the devastating impact fires can have on people’s lives. What You See in Them Stays with You ©Article cover made by the author. In a narcissistic relationship, you face things you never expected. You endure behaviors that seem unreal, hear words of […]

This is common in every narcissistic relationship, where things get worse and worse until the relationship finally breaks and ends. Narcissists thrive on unstable, unhealthy relationships that lack depth. They draw people in whether family, partners, neighbors, or coworkers with the goal of draining their energy, spirit, goals, drive, and self-confidence. Imagine growing up with narcissistic parents, they didn’t support […]

At first, it all felt so real and sincere. You went into it with good intentions, planning to keep your promises and be honest. But soon enough, you realized things were not as they seemed. Imagine being fully committed to a relationship, whether it’s a friendship, romance, work partnership, or community involvement. You went into it with sincere hopes for […]

All marriages can be tiring, but being married to a narcissist is especially painful. It drains you in ways that are hard to describe. Narcissists often pretend to be incompetent, making you feel more like their caretaker than their partner. You always have to chase after them, asking for the same things over and over, but they never listen. Imagine […]

Often, survivors of narcissistic abuse spend much of their lives trying to save what they think is the narcissist’s vulnerable side. But they don’t realize, narcissists don’t have an innocent side inside them. Instead, there’s a cruel inner force that uses people’s feelings against them, causing deep and intentional harm. They often try to save something that isn’t real, and […]