Let’s talk about how narcissists take your attention away. Distraction happens when you’re supposed to be focused on one thing, but something else grabs your mind, making you look away. Imagine you’re at work, focused on your tasks, when suddenly you hear a loud crash from the kitchen. Someone dropped a coffee mug, startling you and pulling your attention away. […]
Let’s talk about how narcissists wiggle their way into our lives. Wiggling is like something slowly sneaking into a system, a person, or a relationship over time. That’s precisely how they operate. They invade people’s lives. The narcissist definitely found their way into your life for a while during that relationship. Maybe you’re still in it, or maybe you’re planning your […]
There are three possible types of new supply. The first type is someone like you used to be, someone who doesn’t know about narcissism and hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse yet. People who haven’t been with a toxic narcissist before are in the first type. They’re like a blank canvas to the narcissist, ready to be influenced. They enter the narcissist’s world […]
I want to discuss how does a narcissist spy on an ex. I’ve been wanting to write this article for a while. Let’s explore the ways narcissists watch and control, which likely started when you first met them. Many of you have met narcissists in different ways, before smartphones were common, this applies to everyone’s experience. From the first time you […]
They can’t escape this cycle of abuse that keeps going in circles. The narcissist is always stuck in their own mess. Narcissists Are Stuck in a Never-Ending Cycle ©Article cover made by the author. Narcissists are skilled at creating a false story that draws others in, making them believe in a fake persona. They thrive by trapping their victims in a fog […]
There are many differences, and I’ll get straight to it. First, you have the ability to love. You can love, you do love, you can fall in love, and you genuinely want the best for the people you care about. What Sets You Apart from a Narcissist? ©Article cover made by the author using Canva Narcissists can’t truly love, they pretend to […]
Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot of TikToks and videos talking about something called pathological demand avoidance. I didn’t know about it before, but now. Let’s delve into it. What is it, exactly? Pathological demand avoidance, or PDA, is something many people with Autism have, but others can have it too. Some say it’s a strong need for independence. It’s […]
