Let’s talk about “I have a deeper understanding of you than you do.” Many of us have heard this from narcissistic partners, family members, friends, or others. When someone says this, it can be confusing. You might wonder what they mean and how they think they understand you so well. When someone tells you, “I have a deeper understanding of you […]
Let’s talk about how narcissists take your attention away. Distraction happens when you’re supposed to be focused on one thing, but something else grabs your mind, making you look away. Imagine you’re at work, focused on your tasks, when suddenly you hear a loud crash from the kitchen. Someone dropped a coffee mug, startling you and pulling your attention away. […]
Let’s talk about how narcissists wiggle their way into our lives. Wiggling is like something slowly sneaking into a system, a person, or a relationship over time. That’s precisely how they operate. They invade people’s lives. The narcissist definitely found their way into your life for a while during that relationship. Maybe you’re still in it, or maybe you’re planning your […]
I want to talk about the trust issues in relationships with narcissists. One big problem with narcissists is they never earned your trust. Let’s dive deeper into this. Let’s discuss trust, it’s essential in any good relationship. Trust is built on being honest and dependable. Whether it’s with a parent, partner, or friend, you trust them to tell the truth, and […]
There are three possible types of new supply. The first type is someone like you used to be, someone who doesn’t know about narcissism and hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse yet. People who haven’t been with a toxic narcissist before are in the first type. They’re like a blank canvas to the narcissist, ready to be influenced. They enter the narcissist’s world […]
I want to discuss how does a narcissist spy on an ex. I’ve been wanting to write this article for a while. Let’s explore the ways narcissists watch and control, which likely started when you first met them. Many of you have met narcissists in different ways, before smartphones were common, this applies to everyone’s experience. From the first time you […]
Let’s talk about knowing when a narcissist changes their mask. This mask is the one they always wear. Narcissists usually show two main sides: one in private and another in public. Not always, but often, narcissists lead double lives, switching between different personalities depending on who they’re with. In every relationship with a narcissist, there’s a moment when they feel the […]
In narcissistic abusive relationships, it’s usually the non-narcissistic person who keeps giving chances to the narcissist. Do You Know Why You Used to Give So Many Chances to a Narcissist? ©Article cover made by the author. These people, And I’m sure we’ve all been there too, often missing the red flags. We ignore our instincts and give them many chances, hoping […]
Narcissists often think they’re cleverer than they really are. They assume others won’t see through their fake persona and underestimate our intelligence. How Narcissists Often Reveal Their True Colors Over Time ©Article cover made by the author. They thinks they’re better than everyone else and entitled to special treatment. They see people as either rivals or opportunities to exploit. But their […]
They ignored your boundaries before, ignore them now, and will keep ignoring them in the future. Here is Why Boundaries Are Something Narcissists Don’t Like ©Article cover made by the author. Let’s turn the tables, the narcissist has plenty of boundaries but they never let you in on them. You’re kept in the dark about where they are, who they’re with, or […]
