Let’s talk about “I have a deeper understanding of you than you do.” Many of us have heard this from narcissistic partners, family members, friends, or others. When someone says this, it can be confusing. You might wonder what they mean and how they think they understand you so well. When someone tells you, “I have a deeper understanding of you […]
It’s an important skill, especially when dealing with narcissistic relationships, both during and after. Many times in life, the best thing to do is just not to act. Let’s look at some examples from before you knew a narcissist and everyday situations. Imagine it’s a windy day outside, with gusts of wind and occasional showers, and you feel like going […]
Today’s topic is about how and why you succeeded against narcissist. Let’s talk about winning, narcissists always want to win. They see every relationship and interaction as a competition, always trying to be better than everyone else. When it comes to narcissists thinking they’re winning in a relationship with you, it’s because you didn’t know about narcissism. No one talk about […]
I want to talk about the trust issues in relationships with narcissists. One big problem with narcissists is they never earned your trust. Let’s dive deeper into this. Let’s discuss trust, it’s essential in any good relationship. Trust is built on being honest and dependable. Whether it’s with a parent, partner, or friend, you trust them to tell the truth, and […]
There are three possible types of new supply. The first type is someone like you used to be, someone who doesn’t know about narcissism and hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse yet. People who haven’t been with a toxic narcissist before are in the first type. They’re like a blank canvas to the narcissist, ready to be influenced. They enter the narcissist’s world […]
I want to discuss how does a narcissist spy on an ex. I’ve been wanting to write this article for a while. Let’s explore the ways narcissists watch and control, which likely started when you first met them. Many of you have met narcissists in different ways, before smartphones were common, this applies to everyone’s experience. From the first time you […]
Let’s discuss what comes after the aftermath of validation. Just as you see the leaves turning green around us and new life sprouting all over, that’s what you can expect after dealing with a narcissistic relationship. As you begin to heal, everything will start feeling fresh and full of possibilities. You may not be fully healed yet, but you’re starting to […]
It’s like trying to explain a long, detailed trip to someone who has never taken it. The little details and complexities are hard to get across, making it a challenging job. Explaining what it’s like to endure narcissistic abuse is hard for those who haven’t been through it. You can learn from articles, books and videos, but truly grasping things […]
This truth is clear. Narcissists show this well, they don’t feel anything. They may pretend, but they don’t know love or empathy. They take everything from you like your time, energy, love, and care. When you cry during a movie time together, they’re busy on their phones or they try to see you reaction, not understanding your tears. “Why cry? or […]
Narcissists often think they’re cleverer than they really are. They assume others won’t see through their fake persona and underestimate our intelligence. How Narcissists Often Reveal Their True Colors Over Time ©Article cover made by the author. They thinks they’re better than everyone else and entitled to special treatment. They see people as either rivals or opportunities to exploit. But their […]
