There are three possible types of new supply. The first type is someone like you used to be, someone who doesn’t know about narcissism and hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse yet. People who haven’t been with a toxic narcissist before are in the first type. They’re like a blank canvas to the narcissist, ready to be influenced. They enter the narcissist’s world […]
I want to discuss how does a narcissist spy on an ex. I’ve been wanting to write this article for a while. Let’s explore the ways narcissists watch and control, which likely started when you first met them. Many of you have met narcissists in different ways, before smartphones were common, this applies to everyone’s experience. From the first time you […]
Let’s discuss what comes after the aftermath of validation. Just as you see the leaves turning green around us and new life sprouting all over, that’s what you can expect after dealing with a narcissistic relationship. As you begin to heal, everything will start feeling fresh and full of possibilities. You may not be fully healed yet, but you’re starting to […]
It’s like trying to explain a long, detailed trip to someone who has never taken it. The little details and complexities are hard to get across, making it a challenging job. Explaining what it’s like to endure narcissistic abuse is hard for those who haven’t been through it. You can learn from articles, books and videos, but truly grasping things […]
This truth is clear. Narcissists show this well, they don’t feel anything. They may pretend, but they don’t know love or empathy. They take everything from you like your time, energy, love, and care. When you cry during a movie time together, they’re busy on their phones or they try to see you reaction, not understanding your tears. “Why cry? or […]
Narcissists often think they’re cleverer than they really are. They assume others won’t see through their fake persona and underestimate our intelligence. How Narcissists Often Reveal Their True Colors Over Time ©Article cover made by the author. They thinks they’re better than everyone else and entitled to special treatment. They see people as either rivals or opportunities to exploit. But their […]
They ignored your boundaries before, ignore them now, and will keep ignoring them in the future. Here is Why Boundaries Are Something Narcissists Don’t Like ©Article cover made by the author. Let’s turn the tables, the narcissist has plenty of boundaries but they never let you in on them. You’re kept in the dark about where they are, who they’re with, or […]
Going through a narcissistic relationship changes you deeply. You now see that you were undervalued, taken for granted, and treated poorly during that time. The New You After Narcissistic Abuse ©Article cover made by the author. You were always apologizing, doing unpaid tasks like driving and cleaning, and serving the narcissist. Before you met them, your life was going well. Then the […]
After too many times of trust being broken and boundaries ignored by the narcissist. It’s when patience wears thin, and you can’t take any more. It’s when you realize you’ve had enough. The Feeling When You Can’t Take It Anymore ©Article cover made by the author. When you feel like you can’t take it anymore and the narcissist’s true colors are revealed, […]
Let’s begin with closure, it’s something they won’t give you. They avoid it, leaving you in limbo instead of providing clarity. Once you healed, you won’t be the same person anymore. ©Photo of the author After breaking free from a narcissistic relationship, those who were left behind or chose to walk away often hope for closure. But here’s the reality […]
