Control is very important to them. When you were in the relationship, you didn’t know this because you thought it was a kind, loving, and stable relationship. When you met the narcissist, they took control right away. They decided who you hung out with, what you did, and even what clothes you wore. They ran everything in the relationship. And […]
We’re focusing on narcissists and why it’s crucial to avoid them. Narcissists are people who don’t genuinely care about you. They’ve never had your best interests at heart, not in the past, not now, and definitely not in the future. As you try to leave a relationship with a narcissist or plan how to get out, you realize just how common narcissism […]
You might have heard me use chess, ocean, and “light at the end of the tunnel” examples before. These comparisons apply when you’re healing from a narcissistic relationship. In this article, I want to explain something for those who aren’t familiar with chess: Chess is played on a board, and when one of your pawns reaches the opponent’s backline, you can […]
It could be someone you used to date, a family member, a coworker, or just a friend. Sometimes, you might feel tempted to give them another chance. Dealing with a narcissist is extremly difficult. They flip between acting like a victim and acting superior, always trying to get their way. For example, think about a parent with a narcissistic adult child. […]
Today’s topic is about When You See the Narcissist for Who They Really Are. Knowing the real person behind the mask, instead of who you hoped they were, is a key part of healing. During the relationship, you probably gave the narcissist many chances. You didn’t trust your gut feelings, ignored the red flags, and saw a twisted version of reality. […]
The turning point for the narcissist’s downfall is a critical moment. Thinking back on your time in a relationship with them, you might remember how they behaved strangely and said things that were completely new to you. When you were in that relationship, you faced unexpected situations. These were early signs revealing the narcissist’s struggle to control themselves. Narcissists rely on […]
Let’s talk about why people are drawn to narcissists. After being in a relationship with a narcissist, or even during one, you often wonder: “How did I end up like this after a narcissistic relationship” This question is hard because it usually means something went wrong or isn’t going as planned. It’s a tough question to think about. In a relationship with […]
Let’s talk about there’s no going back in a narcissistic relationship. Whether you’re dealing with life after a narcissistic relationship or trying to break free from their control, like in a divorce or separation, it’s a tough road ahead. When you start pondering, “Was the narcissist truly that awful? Was the relationship so toxic?” Take a moment to reflect on the […]
We’re looking at how things shift from dealing with difficult times to finding peace. We’ll focus on narcissistic relationships, what it was like when you were in one and how things have improved since leaving it. The difficult times you faced in that narcissistic relationship were like being caught in a storm without knowing how you got there. Without you realizing, […]
I want to talk about I’ma leave that door close tightly for narcissists. I’m talking about the door that leads back to the narcissist. Once you learn from the advice and tools shared here, you’ll see that the best move is to stop all contact with these people completely. I emphasize this in almost every article because it works. It’s crucial […]
