Let’s discuss the concept of thinking “things will change this time for me dear narcissist” You’ve left the narcissistic relationship. Whether you’re progressing, healing, or already healed, your goal is to achieve complete indifference. You want to reach a place where thoughts about the narcissist or people from your past no longer bother you. Suddenly, things might seem to be going […]
Today, we’re talking about the power of staying silent and how it affects your energy. I often empahsize the strength in choosing silence. It’s crucial in your healing process to use this strength, to avoid harmful messages from narcissists or their supporters. This article shows how silence can refresh and energize you. When we were in a relationship with a narcissist, […]
Let’s talk about what a narcissist often keeps back in a relationship. I wrote an article about this in the past, but I’ve received many emails asking why narcissists hold things back and why they act the way they do. So, I’m going to cover it again and add more details. Let’s get started. When you’re with a narcissist, they hide […]
Let’s talk about “I have a deeper understanding of you than you do.” Many of us have heard this from narcissistic partners, family members, friends, or others. When someone says this, it can be confusing. You might wonder what they mean and how they think they understand you so well. When someone tells you, “I have a deeper understanding of you […]
It’s an important skill, especially when dealing with narcissistic relationships, both during and after. Many times in life, the best thing to do is just not to act. Let’s look at some examples from before you knew a narcissist and everyday situations. Imagine it’s a windy day outside, with gusts of wind and occasional showers, and you feel like going […]
Today’s topic is about how and why you succeeded against narcissist. Let’s talk about winning, narcissists always want to win. They see every relationship and interaction as a competition, always trying to be better than everyone else. When it comes to narcissists thinking they’re winning in a relationship with you, it’s because you didn’t know about narcissism. No one talk about […]
Let’s talk about how narcissists take your attention away. Distraction happens when you’re supposed to be focused on one thing, but something else grabs your mind, making you look away. Imagine you’re at work, focused on your tasks, when suddenly you hear a loud crash from the kitchen. Someone dropped a coffee mug, startling you and pulling your attention away. […]
Let’s talk about how narcissists wiggle their way into our lives. Wiggling is like something slowly sneaking into a system, a person, or a relationship over time. That’s precisely how they operate. They invade people’s lives. The narcissist definitely found their way into your life for a while during that relationship. Maybe you’re still in it, or maybe you’re planning your […]
I want to talk about the trust issues in relationships with narcissists. One big problem with narcissists is they never earned your trust. Let’s dive deeper into this. Let’s discuss trust, it’s essential in any good relationship. Trust is built on being honest and dependable. Whether it’s with a parent, partner, or friend, you trust them to tell the truth, and […]
There are three possible types of new supply. The first type is someone like you used to be, someone who doesn’t know about narcissism and hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse yet. People who haven’t been with a toxic narcissist before are in the first type. They’re like a blank canvas to the narcissist, ready to be influenced. They enter the narcissist’s world […]
