Let’s talk about “I have a deeper understanding of you than you do.” Many of us have heard this from narcissistic partners, family members, friends, or others. When someone says this, it can be confusing. You might wonder what they mean and how they think they understand you so well. When someone tells you, “I have a deeper understanding of you […]
It’s an important skill, especially when dealing with narcissistic relationships, both during and after. Many times in life, the best thing to do is just not to act. Let’s look at some examples from before you knew a narcissist and everyday situations. Imagine it’s a windy day outside, with gusts of wind and occasional showers, and you feel like going […]
Today’s topic is about how and why you succeeded against narcissist. Let’s talk about winning, narcissists always want to win. They see every relationship and interaction as a competition, always trying to be better than everyone else. When it comes to narcissists thinking they’re winning in a relationship with you, it’s because you didn’t know about narcissism. No one talk about […]
Let’s discuss what comes after the aftermath of validation. Just as you see the leaves turning green around us and new life sprouting all over, that’s what you can expect after dealing with a narcissistic relationship. As you begin to heal, everything will start feeling fresh and full of possibilities. You may not be fully healed yet, but you’re starting to […]
Let’s talk about making the most of your perspective from distance. I’ve wanted to cover this for some time. It’s about those situations where you’re out of a narcissistic relationship, or maybe you were never in one, but you see someone else stuck in one and feel helpless to assist. We can’t just come and say, “Hey, I think your relationship is […]
This truth is clear. Narcissists show this well, they don’t feel anything. They may pretend, but they don’t know love or empathy. They take everything from you like your time, energy, love, and care. When you cry during a movie time together, they’re busy on their phones or they try to see you reaction, not understanding your tears. “Why cry? or […]
They ignored your boundaries before, ignore them now, and will keep ignoring them in the future. Here is Why Boundaries Are Something Narcissists Don’t Like ©Article cover made by the author. Let’s turn the tables, the narcissist has plenty of boundaries but they never let you in on them. You’re kept in the dark about where they are, who they’re with, or […]
Going through a narcissistic relationship changes you deeply. You now see that you were undervalued, taken for granted, and treated poorly during that time. The New You After Narcissistic Abuse ©Article cover made by the author. You were always apologizing, doing unpaid tasks like driving and cleaning, and serving the narcissist. Before you met them, your life was going well. Then the […]
After too many times of trust being broken and boundaries ignored by the narcissist. It’s when patience wears thin, and you can’t take any more. It’s when you realize you’ve had enough. The Feeling When You Can’t Take It Anymore ©Article cover made by the author. When you feel like you can’t take it anymore and the narcissist’s true colors are revealed, […]
Let’s begin with closure, it’s something they won’t give you. They avoid it, leaving you in limbo instead of providing clarity. Once you healed, you won’t be the same person anymore. ©Photo of the author After breaking free from a narcissistic relationship, those who were left behind or chose to walk away often hope for closure. But here’s the reality […]
