You might have heard me use chess, ocean, and “light at the end of the tunnel” examples before. These comparisons apply when you’re healing from a narcissistic relationship. In this article, I want to explain something for those who aren’t familiar with chess: Chess is played on a board, and when one of your pawns reaches the opponent’s backline, you can […]
I want to talk about I’ma leave that door close tightly for narcissists. I’m talking about the door that leads back to the narcissist. Once you learn from the advice and tools shared here, you’ll see that the best move is to stop all contact with these people completely. I emphasize this in almost every article because it works. It’s crucial […]
Let’s discuss the concept of thinking “things will change this time for me dear narcissist” You’ve left the narcissistic relationship. Whether you’re progressing, healing, or already healed, your goal is to achieve complete indifference. You want to reach a place where thoughts about the narcissist or people from your past no longer bother you. Suddenly, things might seem to be going […]
Today’s topic is about how and why you succeeded against narcissist. Let’s talk about winning, narcissists always want to win. They see every relationship and interaction as a competition, always trying to be better than everyone else. When it comes to narcissists thinking they’re winning in a relationship with you, it’s because you didn’t know about narcissism. No one talk about […]
Let’s discuss what comes after the aftermath of validation. Just as you see the leaves turning green around us and new life sprouting all over, that’s what you can expect after dealing with a narcissistic relationship. As you begin to heal, everything will start feeling fresh and full of possibilities. You may not be fully healed yet, but you’re starting to […]
In narcissistic abusive relationships, it’s usually the non-narcissistic person who keeps giving chances to the narcissist. Do You Know Why You Used to Give So Many Chances to a Narcissist? ©Article cover made by the author. These people, And I’m sure we’ve all been there too, often missing the red flags. We ignore our instincts and give them many chances, hoping […]
Going through a narcissistic relationship changes you deeply. You now see that you were undervalued, taken for granted, and treated poorly during that time. The New You After Narcissistic Abuse ©Article cover made by the author. You were always apologizing, doing unpaid tasks like driving and cleaning, and serving the narcissist. Before you met them, your life was going well. Then the […]
Let’s begin with closure, it’s something they won’t give you. They avoid it, leaving you in limbo instead of providing clarity. Once you healed, you won’t be the same person anymore. ©Photo of the author After breaking free from a narcissistic relationship, those who were left behind or chose to walk away often hope for closure. But here’s the reality […]
