You might have heard me use chess, ocean, and “light at the end of the tunnel” examples before. These comparisons apply when you’re healing from a narcissistic relationship. In this article, I want to explain something for those who aren’t familiar with chess: Chess is played on a board, and when one of your pawns reaches the opponent’s backline, you can […]
It could be someone you used to date, a family member, a coworker, or just a friend. Sometimes, you might feel tempted to give them another chance. Dealing with a narcissist is extremly difficult. They flip between acting like a victim and acting superior, always trying to get their way. For example, think about a parent with a narcissistic adult child. […]
Let’s talk about why people are drawn to narcissists. After being in a relationship with a narcissist, or even during one, you often wonder: “How did I end up like this after a narcissistic relationship” This question is hard because it usually means something went wrong or isn’t going as planned. It’s a tough question to think about. In a relationship with […]
Let’s talk about there’s no going back in a narcissistic relationship. Whether you’re dealing with life after a narcissistic relationship or trying to break free from their control, like in a divorce or separation, it’s a tough road ahead. When you start pondering, “Was the narcissist truly that awful? Was the relationship so toxic?” Take a moment to reflect on the […]
We’re looking at how things shift from dealing with difficult times to finding peace. We’ll focus on narcissistic relationships, what it was like when you were in one and how things have improved since leaving it. The difficult times you faced in that narcissistic relationship were like being caught in a storm without knowing how you got there. Without you realizing, […]
I want to talk about I’ma leave that door close tightly for narcissists. I’m talking about the door that leads back to the narcissist. Once you learn from the advice and tools shared here, you’ll see that the best move is to stop all contact with these people completely. I emphasize this in almost every article because it works. It’s crucial […]
Let’s discuss the concept of thinking “things will change this time for me dear narcissist” You’ve left the narcissistic relationship. Whether you’re progressing, healing, or already healed, your goal is to achieve complete indifference. You want to reach a place where thoughts about the narcissist or people from your past no longer bother you. Suddenly, things might seem to be going […]
Let’s discuss what comes after the aftermath of validation. Just as you see the leaves turning green around us and new life sprouting all over, that’s what you can expect after dealing with a narcissistic relationship. As you begin to heal, everything will start feeling fresh and full of possibilities. You may not be fully healed yet, but you’re starting to […]
Let’s talk about making the most of your perspective from distance. I’ve wanted to cover this for some time. It’s about those situations where you’re out of a narcissistic relationship, or maybe you were never in one, but you see someone else stuck in one and feel helpless to assist. We can’t just come and say, “Hey, I think your relationship is […]
This means not allowing any chance for the narcissist, or narcissists, to re-enter your life. Here is Why You Should Shut the Door Completely ©Article cover made by the author. Imagine closing all doors tightly, so the narcissist can’t reach you through texts, emails, voice messages, or calls. They’ll realize you’re still figuring out how to cut them off completely. Maybe you’re […]
