Let’s talk about how narcissists wiggle their way into our lives. Wiggling is like something slowly sneaking into a system, a person, or a relationship over time. That’s precisely how they operate.They invade people’s lives. The narcissist definitely found their way into your life for a while during that relationship. Maybe you’re still in it, or maybe you’re planning your way […]

I want to talk about the trust issues in relationships with narcissists. One big problem with narcissists is they never earned your trust. Let’s dive deeper into this. Let’s discuss trust, it’s essential in any good relationship. Trust is built on being honest and dependable. Whether it’s with a parent, partner, or friend, you trust them to tell the truth, and […]

There are three possible types of new supply. The first type is someone like you used to be, someone who doesn’t know about narcissism and hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse yet. People who haven’t been with a toxic narcissist before are in the first type. They’re like a blank canvas to the narcissist, ready to be influenced. They enter the narcissist’s world […]

I want to discuss how does a narcissist spy on an ex. I’ve been wanting to write this article for a while. Let’s explore the ways narcissists watch and control, which likely started when you first met them. Many of you have met narcissists in different ways, before smartphones were common, this applies to everyone’s experience. From the first time you […]

Let’s talk about knowing when a narcissist changes their mask. This mask is the one they always wear. Narcissists usually show two main sides: one in private and another in public. Not always, but often, narcissists lead double lives, switching between different personalities depending on who they’re with. In every relationship with a narcissist, there’s a moment when they feel the […]

Let’s discuss what comes after the aftermath of validation. Just as you see the leaves turning green around us and new life sprouting all over, that’s what you can expect after dealing with a narcissistic relationship. As you begin to heal, everything will start feeling fresh and full of possibilities. You may not be fully healed yet, but you’re starting to […]

Let’s talk about making the most of your perspective from distance. I’ve wanted to cover this for some time. It’s about those situations where you’re out of a narcissistic relationship, or maybe you were never in one, but you see someone else stuck in one and feel helpless to assist. We can’t just come and say, “Hey, I think your relationship is […]

It’s like trying to explain a long, detailed trip to someone who has never taken it. The little details and complexities are hard to get across, making it a challenging job. Explaining what it’s like to endure narcissistic abuse is hard for those who haven’t been through it. You can learn from articles, books and videos, but truly grasping things […]

This truth is clear. Narcissists show this well, they don’t feel anything. They may pretend, but they don’t know love or empathy. They take everything from you like your time, energy, love, and care. When you cry during a movie time together, they’re busy on their phones or they try to see you reaction, not understanding your tears. “Why cry? or […]

In narcissistic abusive relationships, it’s usually the non-narcissistic person who keeps giving chances to the narcissist. Do You Know Why You Used to Give So Many Chances to a Narcissist? ©Article cover made by the author. These people, And I’m sure we’ve all been there too, often missing the red flags. We ignore our instincts and give them many chances, hoping […]

Narcissists often think they’re cleverer than they really are. They assume others won’t see through their fake persona and underestimate our intelligence. How Narcissists Often Reveal Their True Colors Over Time ©Article cover made by the author. They thinks they’re better than everyone else and entitled to special treatment. They see people as either rivals or opportunities to exploit. But their […]

They ignored your boundaries before, ignore them now, and will keep ignoring them in the future. Here is Why Boundaries Are Something Narcissists Don’t Like ©Article cover made by the author. Let’s turn the tables, the narcissist has plenty of boundaries but they never let you in on them. You’re kept in the dark about where they are, who they’re with, or […]