This person becomes the narcissist’s primary focus, receiving fake empathy, love, and attention. They are treated like a new shiny object that the narcissist showers with fake affection. When the New Supply Realizes ©Article cover made by the author using Canva Before we go deeper, the new supply could be in one of three situations. First, they might not yet recognize […]

Narcissists often push too hard. They know what they’re doing and want to take advantage of people who haven’t healed or understood narcissism. When Narcissists’ Plans Go Wrong ©Article cover made by the author. If you’ve been discarded by a narcissist, I understand your pain. Did the end of your relationship surprise you? It probably did. Meanwhile, the narcissist already found someone […]

They’re constantly craving something they can never seem to grasp, something they call “supply”. It’s like they’re always chasing after an elusive feeling of being full, but no matter how much they consume, they’re left wanting more. The Narcissist Hunger Games ©Article cover made by the author. As if they’re running after a shimmering oasis in the desert, always just out of reach. […]

In a relationship with a narcissist, they often said things with hidden meanings. For instance, when they said “I love you,” it might not have meant what you thought. Let’s uncover what their words truly meant. What the Narcissist Meant for Yourself ©Article cover made by the author. We now know narcissists can’t genuinely love. But you can, and that’s a wonderful quality. […]

Many people often wonder why narcissists delay breaking up. There are various reasons for this behavior. Understanding these reasons can help you better grasp the nature of such relationships. Why Did the Narcissist Delay Ending the Relationship? ©Article cover made by the author. The first reason is that the narcissist had drained you completely. They took your time, energy, love, and […]

Their past actions come back to haunt them sooner or later, it’s bound to happen. The narcissist moves through life like a wrecking ball in a serene garden. Their goal is to cause harm like manipulating, deceiving, creating chaos, and ruining lives without feeling sorry. Some may argue, “Ryan, you’re being harsh.” No, I’m not. If you’ve crossed paths a narcissist […]

You feel emotionally low and can’t see through the manipulation and mistreatment. It’s a confusing and disorienting experience where you might not even understand what’s happening. When You’re Lost in a Narcissistic Fog ©Article cover made by the author. You know you’re not being treated well. The abuse or manipulation happens more often now, almost every day. You’re getting used to […]

To start, the first thing narcissists crave is confusion. They thrive when people around them are uncertain and unsure. Narcissists avoid stable, healthy relationships and prefer keeping others isolated and separated from each other. Here are The Essential Needs of Narcissists ©Article cover made by the author. They form small groups and deliberately isolate individuals. They use tactics such as gaslighting, silent […]

While you were in it, there were many moments when you worked hard to make it better. They will say like “Hey, can we talk about our relationship? It seems like things have changed, and we need to discuss what’s next.” When You Tried to Save the Relationship ©Article cover made by the author. Back then, you didn’t realize what kind of […]

Today might be a very shocking day for me, after dedicating so much time to writing every day on Medium and this is what happened. ©Screenshot by the author. Today, July 8th, 2024, I saw a surprising this red banner while awaiting my June 2024 payment from Medium, which was marked as pending. I had recently emailed them regarding this. However, […]

There is a very long list of things that the narcissist destroys. I’ll jump right into it. A Long List That Narcissists Destroy in You ©Article cover made by the author. The first thing the narcissist destroyed was your trust. You used to trust them, just like you trust most people, until you met that narcissistic person who betrayed you. They promised […]

When you were in that relationship with the narcissist, you didn’t know what they wanted or about narcissism beforehand. So, you didn’t understand what you were dealing with, whether it was a narcissistic family, spouse, coworker, colleague, neighbor, friend, or anyone who might have been a narcissist. What Did the Narcissist Really Want from You? ©Article cover made by the author. […]